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99. Harold J. KONGABEL
was born on 25 May 1905 in Guthrie, Logan Co, OK. He was buried in 2000 in
Austin Memorial Park, Austin, Travis Co, TX. He died on 30 Sep 2000 in San Antonio,
Bexar Co, TX.
Subject: Harold J. Kongabel (Dad, Uncle Harold, Gaga)
Date: Sat, 30 Sep 2000 11:33:18 -0500
From: "Fred Kongabel" <fkongabel@satx.rr.com>
Having kept you informed about Dad's recent health problems, I must let you know
he went to be with his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ early this morning. He has
been doing his best to live fully the past two weeks but he has been ready to
join Mother when the time came. He passed on quietly in his sleep.
Thank you all for your prayers. To God be the glory for a life well lived.
Funeral arrangements have not been made but he will be buried with Mother in
Austin.
Thanks again, Fred Kongabel
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Obituary
Harold J. Kongabel, 95
Harold Kongabel went to be with His Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ on Saturday,
September 30, 2000. Harold was born in Guthrie, Oklahoma on May 25, 1905.
Harold was married to Mae Hopkins Kongabel on June 19, 1927. They were married
for 55 years until Mae predeceased him in 1992. His two children, Fred and Carolyn,
and numerous grand children and great grandchildren, survive Harold.
Fred and his wife Pat live in San Antonio and their family consists of daughter
Beth Kongabel Mangum and husband Rick and their children Christine, Kelsey and
Matthew; son Jason Kongabel, son Jeff Thompson and son Ralph Thompson and wife
Carol.
Carolyn and her husband, Carol Vance, live in Houston and their family consists
of daughter, Lynn Vance Goodson and husband Mark and daughters, Carrie, Camille
and Carly; son Carroll Vance III and sons Carroll IV and Thomas; daughter Karen
Vance Geoca and husband Ted and sons
Nicholas, Peter and Christian; son Harold Vance; and daughter Cheryl Vance Tucker
and
husband Brian and children Andrew, Sarah, Carolyn and Benjamin.
Harold was born in 1905 on a farm to his parents, Henrietta Crocker and William
F. Kongabel. He had eight brothers and sisters whom he survived. Harold's father
died in 1908 of typhoid fever so Harold grew up working on the farm as he attended
the small school there. Harold and Mae, who also lived in Guthrie, were classmates.
Both Harold and Mae entered Oklahoma A & M, where Harold worked his way
through school and graduated with a degree in Electrical Engineering. Shortly
thereafter, he and Mae married and Harold took a job with the Westinghouse Corporation
where he served for 35 years until his retirement. Harold and Mae lived in several
cities but resided in Houston for many years. For most of Harold's career he
served in a managerial capacity and was an Industrial Manager at the time of
his retirement.
In Houston Harold was very active in many civic endeavors. He was a long time
elder of the First Presbyterian Church and was president of the Houston Engineering
and Scientific Society. He chaired the Houston Section of the Institute of Electrical
and Electronic Engineers in 1955 and upon retirement received a national medal
for his service to the industry.
Shortly after his retirement in 1962 Harold and Mae built a home in Lago Vista
outside of Austin. Harold became very active in all kinds of civic affairs there
serving on as many as six committees at once. He was named "Outstanding
Citizen" in 1985. He and Mae enjoyed golf and bridge.
Harold regularly had a group of friends over to play pool at his home. Over 25
years ago, Harold was elected to the Pedernales Electric Co-op Board of Directors
and was honored last year by being elected Director Emeritus. Harold and Mae
loved their many friends in Lago Vista and elsewhere, as well as their large
family. Harold thrived on doing all he could to help those
around him. Harold and Mae faithfully attended the Travis Oaks Baptist Church.
Harold was a loving husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather. He loved
his community and his country as well. All of us will miss him very much.
A Memorial Service will be held at 3:30 PM Saturday, October 7 at the Travis
Oaks Baptist Church, 19615 Boggy Ford Road in Lago Vista. A private internment
will take place in Austin Memorial Park.
In lieu of flowers, friends are encouraged to contribute to the Lago Vista Volunteer
Fire/EMS Department, Lago Vista, Texas 78645. Harold was an organizer of this
fine service to the citizens of the area.
Arrangements by Porter Loring Mortuary in San Antonio, Texas.
HAROLD KONGABEL
1905 -- 2000
My name is Carol Vance, and I had the privilege of being the son-in-law of Harold
Kongabel for over 45 years. His two children, Fred Kongabel and Carolyn Kongabel
Vance, thought it appropriate that I share some insights today about the life
of our beloved friend and loved one. First of all, let me join with you in declaring
this a day of celebration for the life of Harold Kongabel and for how much he
meant to each one of us. Let's give thanksgiving and praise for Harold, who
by anyone's standards was an extraordinary man who lived an extraordinary life
for nearly a century. Most certainly, he has left us with many rich blessings
that should be passed down for years to come and from generation to generation.
As we praise the Lord for his life, it would seem only fitting to focus on what
made Harold Kongabel -- Harold Kongabel. I am not going to deify him, but what
was it that made him so well loved and appreciated? One word stands out in my
mind that describes him best. That word is character. Harold Kongabel had character
and had character in abundance. His strength of character characterized not
only who he was but why he was able to give so much of himself so unselfishly
to so many for so long. Truly Harold was a man of principle and character.
I want to talk with you about his strong Christian character because these are
qualities we should consistently seek, and Harold's role model for living is
something we can take away from here. Certainly, we have tears of sadness or
we will miss him greatly. At the same time, we can laugh and shed tears of joy
in celebration for both his character and the many blessings we received from
his life.
The first character trait I want to mention is that Harold was an overcomer.
He persevered. He could face adversity and become stronger for the experience.
He always applied himself through hard work combined with an optimistic spirit
to overcome circumstances of life. Nothing would illustrate this character
trait better than his humble beginning. If you have ever visited the little
three-room frame house on that farm outside of Guthrie, you would wonder how
Harold and his mother and his numerous brothers and sisters could turn around
-- much less find space for a pallet on the floor. You see Harold had eight
brothers and sisters. Harold's father William Frederick Kongabel, whose dad
had come over from Germany, had married Henrietta Crocker. They had nine children
of which Harold was the youngest. Then out of the blue, Harold's father died
when Harold was only three. As soon as Harold was old enough to pick up things
and carry them, like early grade school, Harold was getting up at 4:00 a.m. to
milk the cow. This was just one of his many chores for the day.
Harold worked hard all of his life, and his hardest work was on that farm as
a young school boy. Today it is difficult to image being without television,
a computer, and a cell phone. Our parents thought it was difficult to get along
without a washing machine, refrigerator, or a regular telephone. The Kongabel
farm had none of the above. In fact, they did not even have electricity or running
water. Thus Harold, who could only begin to study after the sun went down due
to his assignments on the farm, studied by the light of an old oil lamp. Speaking
of studies, Harold attended school in a one-room school house with students ranging
from the first through the eighth grade. This school usually had a grand total
of ten students for eight grades. Not a single year did Harold have one class
mate who was in his grade. Oil lamps and teaching conditions notwithstanding,
Harold studied hard enough to win the spelling bee championship for the entire
Logan County.
Among Harold's tasks was the morning and evening pumping of water from the water
well and then carrying the buckets down to the barn to feed the cow, pigs, and
chickens. By the way, taking a bath in a tub on the porch was not fun nor was
it a daily event. Often on a cold and bitter morning, Harold
had to break the ice that formed in the top of the pig's trough so the pigs could
get to the water. Then, he walked to school. He told me his hardest task was
bailing hay. It was a frustrating experience to get all that hay in a neat bundle.
His family may have been dirt farmer poor in worldly terms, but they were rich
in what counts -- that is in a Godly spiritual upbringing. Wouldn't you have
liked to have known Henrietta Crocker, Harold's mom. How did she hold it all
together with no husband and so many mouths to feed? She didn't have the easiest
beginning. She was a twin who did not ever meet her father, supposedly a seafaring
man who never returned from sea.. Penniless, her mother put her and her twin
sister in an orphanage up in Boston where she was born. The orphanage was appropriately
named "The Home for Little Wanderers." The twins were separated early
in life when Henrietta was put
on an orphan train. Orphan trains were trains that carried numerous orphans
out west to the farms where couples in need of more help would adopt a child
who could pitch in with the household tasks. Although Henrietta was adopted,
she retained her own name. She must have been stout. Harold said she had everyone
up early and off to church every Sunday morning without exception. Then, of
course, everyone in the family had to attend the long weekly Wednesday night
prayer meetings. Henrietta had instructed Harold to not even walk on the same
side of the street as the pool hall when he went into town in Guthrie. One day
Harold took the family pony for a Sunday afternoon "joy ride" to go
see a friend. Henrietta let Harold know that Sundays were made for God and not
for cavorting around the country side on the family horse.
One day I was doing a video of Harold for posterity. I asked him what games
he liked to play back during his childhood. Harold said he didn't have much
time for games, but on the warm summer Saturday afternoons he and the local farm
boys would get together and play "Shimmee." I said what in the world
is Shimmee and why didn't you play baseball. He told me that no one
owned a baseball, bat or glove (or a basketball or football for that matter)
and that Shimmee took little equipment. In Shimmee, each player would get an
old dead stick the size of a hockey mallet. The barefooted boys would gather
three rocks. Two rocks were used for the goals at each end of the field, and
they would select as round of a rock as they could find to be the ball. Then
they would choose teams and bruise each other pretty good trying to drive the
rock over the opponent's goal for a score. It was an early Oklahoma farmer's
idea of field hockey.
Harold set goals early on in life and generally achieved them. One huge childhood
project was when he wanted to win the County Fair blue ribbon with his pet pig.
He fed that little pig all it could eat. It was so fat and Harold kept it so
clean that the neighbors said he was a cinch to win the prize. One day the pig
turned up with a little patch of fungus on its skin. Wanting the pig to be perfect
and blemish free, Harold applied a whole bottle of undiluted Pine-O-Pine that
he heard would do the trick. Well, the little fat pig started squealing and
squealing and the skin came off making an ugly mess. This pig never made it
to the fair. But next year you know what? Harold was back trying again -- with
another pig, of course. That was probably one of the few failures in Harold's
life. Except perhaps for his bird feeder designs in the back of the Lago Vista
home. He never could figure out how to keep those squirrels out.
At the end of the eighth grade when most of the kids were out of the house, Harold
and his mother moved into the big city of Guthrie, Oklahoma. They were still
very poor and Harold's work would turn from farm chores to weekends and after
school in the town's largest grocery. Harold told me that
he usually worked 12 to 14 hours at the grocery store every Saturday for the
grand sum of $1.25. Upon entering Guthrie High School, Harold went down to the
school house to register for class. A pert and pretty young lady by the name
of Mae Hopkins eyed the tall, dark, and handsome Harold as he stood in line.
Mae later expressed her wonderment at "that new Indian boy that was starting
Guthrie High". Work on the farm had made Harold browner than most Cherokees
and set him apart from the city boys. Harold and Mae's relationship developed
and took a more serious turn at Oklahoma A & M. After graduation and one
year with Westinghouse, Harold returned to Guthrie
to marry Mae -- a marriage that was 65 years young at the time of Mae's death
in 1992.
Harold did well in high school and became Secretary Treasurer of the class and
found time to work on the yearbook. Harold studied hard and was admitted to
the electrical engineering college at Oklahoma A & M, now Oklahoma State.
Sweeping floors and taking on any kind of work he could
find, Harold worked all of his way through five academically challenging years
of college to obtain his Electrical Engineering Degree. Harold also enrolled
in the R.O.T.C. He told me he had to do this to have enough clothes to wear
to be presentable at college. Harold received his Second Lieutenant's bars upon
graduation. All of the new Army Officers proudly displayed their calvary boots
in the graduation parade -- except Harold who could not afford to buy any and
marched around in his regular shoes. Harold was very proud of his grandson,
Jason Kongabel, who donned his Texas Aggie Senior boots in the march around a
couple of years ago. Harold was not called to active duty and only served in
the Army Reserve for five years due to lack of funding and the economic times.
From college, Harold went to work for Westinghouse for the rest of his professional
life. In Harold's early years with Westinghouse he still ran into some tough
times. He joined them in 1927, and the big stock market crash came in 1929.
Panic had struck the country and economics spiraled downhill fast. Things
got so bad by 1930 and 1931 that most of the younger employees without many years
of seniority were being let go. Though young, Harold was talented and industrious
enough to survive the first cuts. However in 1932, with a wife and little Fred
to support, the ax was going to fall on
Harold. At the last minute, his boss, Mr. Elbert Stewart, Sr. talked the powers
that be into letting Harold accompany him to the Fort Worth office to be Mr.
Stewart's clerk. Harold was always grateful for that providential help. Harold
served under his lifelong friend Mr. Stewart in El Paso for a good number of
years during Carolyn's and Fred's childhood.
Harold served Westinghouse for over 40 years. He continued to be promoted into
positions of management taking on more and more responsibility. At the time
of his retirement in 1970, he was managing the Westinghouse Industrial Division
for several states. Also, Harold received many honors and headed up many projects,
both at work and later in retirement. He was also a longtime elder in the First
Presbyterian Church of Houston, and, as many of you know, he and Mae loved this
Baptist Church in Lago Vista that they always attended. He served as President
of the prestigious Houston Engineering Society. Harold was an truly an overcomer.
He always persevered. He never looked back, never had any self-pity, and looked
for the best in every circumstance of life. He proved once again that Biblical
principle from Romans 5 that hardship (some versions say suffering or adversity)
develops perseverance, perseverance develops character, and character hope.
Another strong character trait was his careful and meticulous preparation for
every task. He possessed a desire to do everything well. The smallest job was
turned into a quest for excellence. Harold was always organized and prepared.
And he never shunned hard work. Accountability and taking responsibility was
automatic. When he gave a talk, he prepared weeks in advance and he would go
over and over it the words he would say. He would strive to be totally accurate
and very informative. He could do about anything. He must have been appalled
at my mechanical skills but was too kind to criticize. He fixed everything in
our house including all the things I broke from my mechanical inaptitude. To
watch him hang a picture was a work of art. He measured wall to wall by measuring
from both the ceiling and the floor to make certain that picture was right in
the middle. "Why do you measure in both places", I asked. He explained
the distances from the floor and the ceiling could vary up to an inch and he
wanted to get that picture perfectly in the middle. He could do about anything.
He repaired dishwashers, door knobs, motors, plumbing, made grandfather clocks,
and rebuilt who knows what -- all with loving care. What ever he did, he did
it right.
And talk about integrity? He was the epitome of integrity. To exaggerate even
a little was not in Harold's makeup. What you saw was what you got. His word
was his bond. He was a straight shooter in life, as well as on the golf course.
Harold and I played quite a bit of golf, and he was the only person I ever knew
who never landed in the rough. He hit that ball straight down the fairway every
time. He didn't hit it far, and it took him an extra stroke to get to the green.
But you could bet he would bogey that hole. I don't know how many times I played
golf with him and he would have 18
bogies straight. Those odds are pretty high but not with Harold. Speaking of
consistency, those of you who knew his eating habits knew he liked to have lunch
at high noon and dinner at six straight up. If 6:01 or ever 6:02 came around,
he might not say a word. But at 6:03, you could count on hearing,
"Mae, when is that dinner going to be ready?" Mr. Consistency and
Mr. Integrity. Right was right and wrong was wrong, and he didn't know what
the color gray looked like.
Duty, honor, and country describe Harold as well. The American flag on the fourth
of July. The parades he would never miss. He studied every candidate for office
to vote intelligently. With sample ballot in hand, he would call me long distance
each election for input on every judicial race. He would not vote until he knew
who the best persons for those public offices were. As he lay in the hospital
after this last severe heart attack, he asked Carolyn to remind Fred to get him
an absentee ballot. Right after that, he asked her if she had started working
on his Christmas cards yet. This was two weeks ago in September. I was going
to say Harold always liked to be on time. That is not quite true. He always
liked to be 15 minutes early.
Another positive and Godly characteristic was his ability to enjoy life to the
fullest. And he was so grateful for everything he had. He was always counting
his blessings and prior to losing his eyesight and mobility, I never heard him
complain. He liked to praise people not criticize them. He felt fortunate
to live in this country and to be alive. He was an humble man whose ego never
got in his way -- another milestone of his character.
When he retired, I honestly didn't think he could take to retirement and enjoy
the new life. Did he surprise me? He took off his watch and his tie, which
he only wore if he had to and threw himself into the designing and building of
their Lago Vista home and into most every facet of life in the Lago Vista
community. He had a lot of joy. He enjoyed every friend he had, the Pedernales
Electric Co-Op folks who named him a Director Emeritus, (the first I believe),
his golfing buddies he outlived, his bridge friends, and those in several pool
playing groups who shared the regular games. I think he
enjoyed about every one he ever met. He was warm and relational and could literally
both tell stories and listen to friends all day long. He always held court at
every family reunion in order to keep abreast with every detail of everyone's
life. He lived each day in gratitude for the opportunities God had laid before
him.
I believe his strongest character trait was his love for others. He demonstrated
this every day too. Now I am not just talking about an emotional love. I am
talking about that true agape love, that sacrificial service to others. In fact,
that epitomized his life. Those acts of kindness and goodness and gentleness.
He had a servant's heart. Several times I rode with him at night as he drove
the streets of Lago Vista searching for burned out street lights. Did you ever
know another soul that cared whether his neighbor's street lights were working
ten blocks away? Then, the next morning at 8:01 he was on the phone reporting
each burned out lamp and requesting each be fixed by nightfall.
Harold couldn't pass the Volunteer Fire Deptartment without telling me more than
I needed to know about the current fund raising, plus every detail about the
fire trucks, and the wonderful emergency medical service. Every time we passed
a Pedernales Electric Co-Op transformer on the highway, I got a lecture in wattage,
voltage, capacity, and efficiency. Always alert, always interested, always serving.
If a day went by without a few folks calling him for advice or asking special
assistance on some particular problem, I think Harold was disappointed. He lived
to help people. No wonder more than one neighbor referred to him as Mr. Lago
Vista. He did not work for the credit, but at the same time no one would ever
enjoy more the many honors bestowed on him. He was thrilled like a little kid
when he rode in the first car of the Lago Vista parade as Lago Vista's man of
the year. Thank all of you in Lago Vista for loving him and making him feel
so special. Another cherished
event in his life was when he presented the Mae Kongabel Scholarship to a deserving
female athlete at the annual Lago Vista High graduation. Mae had been a start
basketball player at Oklahoma A & M in spite of her lack of height and also
had coached an Oklahoma High School team to a national championship. Harold
liked to tell of her athletic skills when he presented the
award. Yes, Harold was always looking for someone who needed help with something.
Those of you here know so well the many ways he assisted so many good causes
and so many people. He knew how to love.
One of the best ways to measure character is to look at that wonderful list of
the fruits of the Spirit found in Galatians 5. These, of course, are love, joy,
peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, kindness, faithfulness, and self-control.
Harold had these in abundance. Of course, he might get only an A- on patience
if we have to count those times someone made him late for a meeting. Certainly
his life was evidence of all of these fruits except there is one I will close
on that we have not discussed.
The one gift we have not talked about is faithfulness or Harold's faith. Harold
didn't talk about his faith often except he often told me how he prayed every
day. But rest assured he was a solid and firm believer. When he was hospitalized,
he spoke of Jesus. He thoroughly understood what Ephesians 2:8 says. He understood
that it is not by our good works, although Harold had good works in abundance,
but by faith alone through grace that he was saved. He understood salvation
came through faith and trust in Jesus and Jesus alone. He understood John 3:16.
He knew that Jesus was the way, the truth, and the life and that no one came
to the Father but through Jesus.
At the end, Fred and his wife, Pat, (Gaga lived with them in San Antonio the
last two years) had done everything they could to prolong his life and make him
feel at home even with his limited mobility and failing eyesight. But this recent
and last heart failure told us God had other plans soon. When
Carolyn and I went to San Antonio when he was in the hospital, we served him
communion. This was a very special time as he understood that the elements represented
the fact His loving Savior had died for Him on that cross and paid for his sins.
Harold was eternally grateful for that Amazing Grace that flowed from that
Old Rugged Cross, his favorite hymn, and the fact he was going to heaven where
there would be no more pain. We should praise the Lord that Harold only spent
a couple of last weeks of confinement out of 95 years of life. But more than
that, let's praise God that Harold is in the loving arms of Jesus.
Right after communion, Harold expressed how much he wanted to be able to see
his grandchildren and those "beautiful great grandchildren". Even
though there were fifteen grandchildren, he practiced saying their middle names.
He regretted that he could not see them any longer. Today, Harold "no
longer sees through a mirror darkly but face to face" as 1 Corinthians 13
puts it.
Following communion, Harold said I want to pray for all of my family. Removing
the oxygen mask, Harold spoke clearly and spontaneously the most beautiful prayer
and asked God's blessing on Fred and Carolyn and each member of the family --
not unlike what Abraham did for Isaac centuries
ago. At that point, we knew Harold was ready. Once again, Harold was prepared.
So today we celebrate a life well spent. "Well done thy good and faithful
servant." Without pain, Harold now looks through new eyes at the wonders
of heaven. 1st Corinthians tells us that no eye has seen or ear has heard the
wonders that God has prepared for us. If he enjoyed life on this earth, and
you can rest assured that he did, can we even begin to imagine his joy now? And
as he sees Jesus, I am sure among his first words were, "Could you take
me to see Mae?"
As one of those wise Proverbs says, "that as iron sharpens iron so does
one friend sharpen another." Harold's character and his love and his friendship
did exactly that for each of us. Praise God for Harold Kongabel. Amen and Amen.
Memorial Service in honor of Harold J. Kongabel
Travis Oaks Baptist Church, Lago Vista, Texas
Saturday, October 7, 2000
(When I spoke at the Memorial Service, I know I added a couple of things not
in this text and I left a few things out, but this was what I meant to say.
It was a real joy to put this together and reflect on the life of my wonderful
father-in-law and friend. I want to share this with those who knew Harold because
his life was a living example of what a Christian should be about. So Carolyn
and I would like for you to feel free to pass this on.)
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Carol Vance II, New Year's Letter 2001
The one event that over shadowed all others (in 2000) was the loss of Carolyn's
dad, Harold Kongabel, who went to be with the Lord September 30, 2000. He lived
life fully and gave of himself to so many.
Gaga (as we called Harold) just about lived in three centuries. His unusual childhood
is worthy of mention and helps explain his strength of character, perseverance
and commitment to excellence. Shortly after the turn of the century, Gaga's mother
and father moved to a little farm outside of Guthrie, Oklahoma, where Harold
was born in 1905. He was the youngest of nine children. When he was three, his
father died. This left his mother, Henrietta, to rear nine children in their
tiny three room house. His motherr had faced some pretty hard challenges in her
life, too. She and her twin sister ended up in a Boston orphanage after her father
went off to sea and never returned. The orphanage was called the Home for Little
Wanderers. When the twins were old enough to do domestic work, they were loaded
onto an "orphan train" heading west. Families who needed children
to help on the farm would meet the orphan train and adopt certain children as
prearraanged. The twins were separated, but Henrietta was fortunate to be raised
by a Christian family. Henrietta's beginning undoubtedly helped her to bring
up nine children on a farm without a husband.
When Gaga turned five, his working life began. He wouuld rise about 4:00 a.m.
to milk several cows and feed the chickens and pigs. Oftenhe broke the slab of
ice on top of the pig's trough so the pigs could drink their water. Pumping up
enough water from the well was one of Gaga's hardest chores as a family of ten
needs many a wash tub for baths, cooking and laundry. Not only was there no running
water or indoor bathroom, but the house had no electricity. Severe cold, hot
summers, dust and drought were a way of life for Guthrie. Gaga worked almost
every waking hour he was not in school. At night he studied by a kerosene lantern.
He attended school in a tiny one room school house with one teacher and seven
classmates who ranged from the first grade through the eighth. He never once
had a single classmate in his same grade. Later in high school Harold rode his
pony eight miles a day to get to class
During his childhood Gaga never once owned a football, baseball, glove or toy.
In the warm months on Saturday afternoons, Harold played the only game the boys
knew, a game called "Shimmy."
Shimmy required an open field, two rocks for the goals at each end of the field,
some round object for the "ball" and "hockey sticks" straight
off the tree. Then the barefooted boys knocked shins and tried to score as they
played the Oklahoma version of field hockey. One year Harold had a beautiful
pig that everyone said was destined to win the County Fair, the year's big event.
Thhe pig got a sore on its ear, so Harold was advised to apply creosote, Harold
did just that but failed to dilute the creosote. The pig's ear fell off. Undaunted,
Harold entered another pig the following year.
Even with all the work, Henrietta Crocker Benson took her brood to church every
Sunday and to prayer meeting every Wednesday night. She never rmissed. Years
later when the otherrkids grew up and left the farm, Henrietta and Harold moved
into the city of Guthrie. One day Harold went to Guthrie High School to register.
Mae Hopkins, the star of the girl's basketball team, spotted the newcomer in
the registration line. In contrast to the pale city boys, Harold was so much
browner from working the farm that Mae asked a friend, "Who is that new
Indian boy standing in line?" Harold and Mae were together from that time
forward. Both attended Oklahoma A & M, but they did not marry until Harold
was out of school and had landed a job. Harold worked every day after school
and twelve hours on Saturdays at a grocery store and still managed to make the
honor roll and be Secretary-Treasurer of his senior class. He was the only one
of the Kongabel clan to attend college where he worked his way through. He joined
the ROTC to have clothes (uniforms) to wear to class. Five years later Harold
received his Second Lieutenant's bars and his electrical engineering degree.
Soon he started what would be a successful forty year career with Westinghouse.
Harold and Mae enjoyed their "retirement" years at Lago Vista, Texas,
on Lake Travis, where he started the volunteer fire department, the emergency
medical service, was man of the year, and served on the Pedernales Electric Co-op
Board for twenty-five years until age 93 when he was elected their first emeritus
director. Harold was known as Mr. Lago Vista. He enjoyed his golf and long discussions
with family and friends, but he did not have many idle moments. Not only did
her survive, but his early life helped form his optimism, enthusiasm, humility
and gratitude.
. He was married to Mae Mildred HOPKINS (daughter of
George W. HOPKINS and Amanda Ellen THOMAS) on 19 Jun 1927
in Stillwater, Payne Co, OK. Mae Mildred HOPKINS was
born on 26 Feb 1905 in Guthrie, Logan Co, OK. She died in 1992 in Austin, Travis
Co, TX. She was buried in 1992 in Austin Memorial Park, Austin, Travis Co, TX.
Harold J. KONGABEL and Mae Mildred HOPKINS had the following children:
+166 i.
Harold Frederick (Fred) KONGABEL (Private).
+167 ii.
Carolyn Ruth KONGABEL (Private). |